Monday, December 29, 2008

Surrender

Why? Why me? What did i do to deserve this? Why was i singaled out for this fate? How could this be happening to me?A lot of times in our life we are faced with such questions. Everytime fate sends us tumbling down a path we did not expect would come our way, we begin to question it. We begin to go into disbelief. We enter a mode of denail where statements like "this could not be happening to me" or " i did not deserve such a treatment," crowd the mind, blocking any sensible thought from entering it. Everytime we get hurt, by something or someone, we ask these questions. To whom?? To God (or any other power thereof), to fate, or simply to ourselves?And do we get any answers?

At times like these,we simply need to surrender, to let go, to accept things the way they stand. And trust me, it helps.
Iam not someone who believed in this. But then how long do you hold onto such questions? because there are no answers.
This was supposed to happen and could not have happened in any other way. Sounds highly cliched, but then most true things do.
There is no one to be blamed.Not even one's self.

And the moment you surrender, these questions disappear. Atleast they did for me. There's this tranquality which begins to set in and ummmm.... well you start getting sensible again. (which i hope am sounding!!).


I read a line once in a book "If fate doesnt make you laugh, then you just dont get the joke." Laugh it out dude. Thats all it deserves.

2 comments:

Utkarsh Sengar said...

"At times like these,we simply need to surrender, to let go, to accept things the way they stand. And trust me, it helps."

I gave you and Bhuvnesh the same funda when we were in Green Palace ;-)....remember?

Let things happen....they happen for a reason...so do u agree with me now?!

Ankesh Grover said...

yes sir..i completely do :P

the saying goes.....

  • I'm learning real skills that I can apply throughout the rest of my life ... Procrastinating and rationalizing.Calvin and Hobbes

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